The relationship you have with yourself, like other relationships, takes work. If you are open to it, you have the capacity to continue to grow throughout the lifespan.
The love that you have for yourself is important to your overall well being and the health of your interpersonal relationships. Think of yourself as the center of your emotional world (your "Loveverse".) You are in control of the love that you radiate outward and what you wish to receive. Take the time to check-in with yourself each day. What space are you occupying?