Start from within and radiate out. Know that there is no one way to love and it is not an all or nothing state. Meaning, we are constantly growing and healing so you do not have to wait to be in love.
The truth is, our realities are partially based upon our experiences and perceptions. Since experiences and perceptions differ, our realities can as well. This is true even when we are in a shared space and creating the reality together. In the relationship, it is important to hold space for the shared vision as well as the individual realities. The combination of those realities contribute to the shared vision.
Dating can be a fun and enjoyable experience. However, for some, it is an anxiety-producing task. Un-communicated expectations, unrealistic plans, and hidden motives can wreak havoc on first dates. Check out the full blog post for 5 Tips to help on the Therapy For Black Girls site
The number one reason couples have noted for coming to see me is "communication." Often it is not a lack of communication but challenges and errors in the ways in which the communication occurs. There are many reasons that communication may feel rocky: fear of hurting the partner's feelings, fear of the relationship ending, a desire to avoid conflict and not knowing how or when to discuss topics that may feel sensitive.